INTROVERSION IS NOT A CHARACTER FLAW
Being an introvert myself, I am often criticised for being quiet or shy. This is a common misconception of introverted people. We are not shy or quiet, in fact we are more than happy to have a conversation with someone and socialise with friends, family, co-workers. The main difference between us and extroverted or ambiverted people is that we gain our energy and perspective from being alone and spending time in a space that provides us a chance to recharge and reflect - we are also very careful where we invest our energy.
A psychologist during the 1920s, Carl Jung, popularised the terms introversion and extraversion. His discourse suggested that extraverts direct their energy outwards toward others, and gain energy from such encounters. Introverts, on the other hand, focus their energy inwards towards more solitary and thoughtful activities.
A psychologist during the 1920s, Carl Jung, popularised the terms introversion and extraversion. His discourse suggested that extraverts direct their energy outwards toward others, and gain energy from such encounters. Introverts, on the other hand, focus their energy inwards towards more solitary and thoughtful activities.
I personally think, and I am 100% being biased, that introverts are some of the best kind of people you will ever meet.
"Don't think of introversion as something that needs to be cured."— Susan Cain, Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking
Throughout school, university and my time in the workplace I have been told to 'speak up' or 'try this to come out of your shell', I have even been told to rewire my brain in order to become more outgoing - and if I choose not to conform, I am instantly stigmatised. In a world that glorifies busy and outspokenness, it is almost taboo for someone to be quiet or more reserved, or they are accused of having something wrong with them.
I find my introversion a strength in my character. I wouldn't of been able to achieve half the things I have without my introverted traits.
Distinctive Strengths of Being an Introvert;
We Are Impeccable Listeners
The 'quiet ones' are great listeners. We are all generally more empathetic and patient. Because we process information on a deeper level, we are more receptive to someone else's thoughts and emotions. This means that people tend to feel more comfortable confiding in us - we are trustworthy because we understand how difficult it is to open up to someone.
We Contribute With Purpose
Introverts are deep thinkers. This means that we observe and offer a more calculated response. While it is assumed that we struggle with communicating ideas, the truth is that we say fewer words that have a more meaningful impact - I always find it a common trait in some extroverts to speak a lot but say nothing at all.
We Are An Asset To Any Professional Environment
Introverts are fine on our own. We thrive in environments where we are able to work autonomously, build deeper connections and we do not need constant reassurance. It's almost an unspoken prerequisite for anyone who walks into an professional or educational institution to be as outspoken and outgoing as possible in order to succeed - this is simply not true. Introverts should be celebrated for their ability to thoroughly analyse and interpret complex and intricate concepts - without them, there would have been no technological, philosophical, scientific or philanthropic revelations.
Albert Einstein, Charles Darwin, Rosa Parks, Eleanor Roosevelt, JK Rowling, Emma Watson, Alan Turing, Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, Mahatma Ghandi, Theodor Seuss Geisel - these are just a few successful names throughout history and current times who are introverted. Paradoxically, a common practice shared between each of these individuals is solitude. Solitude is what allows focus which in turn fuels creativity and extraordinary levels of labyrinthine thinking.
We Exhibit A Sense Of Calmness
Contrary to what some may believe, introverts are not standoffish. In fact, we emit a sense of calmness which can make even the most extroverted person feel at peace. Because of our intrinsic sense of self and rationalisation, introverts are great at defusing panic in a moment of crisis.
The TED Talk That All Introverts, Extroverts and Ambiverts Need To Watch
I find my introversion a strength in my character. I wouldn't of been able to achieve half the things I have without my introverted traits.
Distinctive Strengths of Being an Introvert;
We Are Impeccable Listeners
The 'quiet ones' are great listeners. We are all generally more empathetic and patient. Because we process information on a deeper level, we are more receptive to someone else's thoughts and emotions. This means that people tend to feel more comfortable confiding in us - we are trustworthy because we understand how difficult it is to open up to someone.
We Contribute With Purpose
Introverts are deep thinkers. This means that we observe and offer a more calculated response. While it is assumed that we struggle with communicating ideas, the truth is that we say fewer words that have a more meaningful impact - I always find it a common trait in some extroverts to speak a lot but say nothing at all.
We Are An Asset To Any Professional Environment
Introverts are fine on our own. We thrive in environments where we are able to work autonomously, build deeper connections and we do not need constant reassurance. It's almost an unspoken prerequisite for anyone who walks into an professional or educational institution to be as outspoken and outgoing as possible in order to succeed - this is simply not true. Introverts should be celebrated for their ability to thoroughly analyse and interpret complex and intricate concepts - without them, there would have been no technological, philosophical, scientific or philanthropic revelations.
Albert Einstein, Charles Darwin, Rosa Parks, Eleanor Roosevelt, JK Rowling, Emma Watson, Alan Turing, Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, Mahatma Ghandi, Theodor Seuss Geisel - these are just a few successful names throughout history and current times who are introverted. Paradoxically, a common practice shared between each of these individuals is solitude. Solitude is what allows focus which in turn fuels creativity and extraordinary levels of labyrinthine thinking.
We Exhibit A Sense Of Calmness
Contrary to what some may believe, introverts are not standoffish. In fact, we emit a sense of calmness which can make even the most extroverted person feel at peace. Because of our intrinsic sense of self and rationalisation, introverts are great at defusing panic in a moment of crisis.
The TED Talk That All Introverts, Extroverts and Ambiverts Need To Watch
Susan Cain, The Power of Introverts https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c0KYU2j0TM4
There is nothing wrong with introverts - they do not need to be fixed. They should not be scrutinised for how they are as individuals. It is important to respect and embrace their distinctive qualities.
I am an introvert and it is not something I will ever be ashamed of. My work ethic, determination, perseverance and resilience have never been hindered by introversion. I have deep and meaningful connections within my friendships and relationships. I have a sense of inner peace, perspective and maturity that is instilled in me morally and ethically - this is thanks to my ability to connect and recharge inwards. I will never conform to an expected personality type. I am proud to be an introvert.
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Until next time.
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